Monday, February 2, 2015
Unemployment and Thinking Outside the Box
If you find yourself unemployed these days, look at it as an opportunity
to think outside the box. All our working lives, we live as slaves of
the corporation. We're afraid of being fired, or we get disgruntled
because we are paid so little. So if you are unemployed right now,
rejoice! It forces you to think outside the box. Give up the old ways
of thinking. Look around you, observe, brainstorm about ways to make
money. Evaluate your budget. Do you really need so much money? If you
don't have the latest gadget, are you afraid you will be rejected by
your peers? Are you free? A lot of our fears are fears of rejection
that put us in a box. Break out of that box. Think of all the fears
that keep you inside the box. Break out of the box! Society can reject
you for being different or poor, but you can bear it. In exchange for
that rejection is your freedom. Are you afraid of being homeless? Are
you afraid of begging? When I lost my job, I felt like my life was
over. I felt like I lost my identity, because my job gave me my
self-worth. But I learned to budget and penny pinch. I discovered a
new joy from being with very little money, but I have my mind for
thinking and my heart for creativity. I began to notice my surroundings.
I used to ignore the trees and the flowers. I used to ignore how much
money I already had, compared to nothing. And I discovered that
there's no such thing as nothing. There is everything in my life...I
just didn't focus on them because my mind was focused on my lack. I was
always thinking that I lacked this, I lacked that. And I ignored what I
already had, and how much worth it had. I found enjoyment from a
simple sandwich for lunch...two slices of whole wheat bread and cheese,
but being in peace. I found enjoyment in just sitting outside with a
cup of coffee and being with my thoughts. I began to understand where I
invested my time and effort. My values changed. I learned to value
the "small" things in life. Now, I value being able to wake up in the
morning. I value my intelligence and creativity because I can discover
how to live an authentic life, instead of life in a box.
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